As I always say, believe me, or nor we are all potential achievers but the negative people around us or those move with tend to be an obstacle as we are struggling and moving towards achieving our goals.
A great friend of mine in the world of blogosphere Rosy Omeje always says Abass try to move with positive-minded people and avoid negative-minded beings because positive people think positively and work relentlessly to achieve their objectives or goals but negative-minded people think negatively and tend to move in the wrong directions which seem to be outwards in achieving their own goals or your goals.
Sincerely, living your own life the right way is very important and plays a major part in making you achieve your goals. If you really want to live your self-life, then you ought to be bold to take any decision concerning your life at the right time and right place.
Moreover, you have to stop living in the shadow of others if you truly want your positive dreams to come true. Trust me, you will meet a lot of individuals in the course of achieving or attaining your goals in your lifetime; both the good, the bad and the ugly.
The main question now is, which of them should you avoid?
1. The no-good people.
2. The fair cloud people.
3. The discouraging people.
1- THE NO-GOOD PEOPLE:
The no-good people are simply persons who don’t want to hear any good news concerning you! They will always be there to sympathize with you when you encounter a misfortune but will never be happy for you when you tell them your good-luck.
Such people are obstacles because they may tend to develop cold feelings towards you and some may go ahead to try to harm you.
Staying away from such persons will help you because you will not feel threatened by your own positive achievements.
2- THE FAIR CLOUD PEOPLE:
The fair cloud people are called “friends for benefits”. They are there when your going is good only. But when your going gets tough at any time, they will vanish faster than the way they came to you.
Such individuals should not be flocking around you because they are there only because of what you can offer and will definitely disappear when you are out of things to offer to them.
3- THE DISCOURAGING PEOPLE:
The discouraging people are those who never support you to try out new things. They will always give you a million reasons why you will fail in that new idea you told them about. But when you turn around, they will steal your idea and use it for themselves.
They are obstacles because they will not let you achieve your own goals but use you to achieve theirs. You may think you are doing them a favour but trust me, you are making things difficult for yourself.
Though there are other persons to avoid in your life but these three are the ones to flee from if you really ever want to achieve your goals.
Remember, lions do not mingle with cats. You can never go anywhere or achieve anything with negative persons around you so never embark on your life journey with someone who is not going anywhere in this life or will never add value to the adventures of your life.