• ABOUT
  • CONTACT
  • ADVERTISE
  • PRIVACY POLICY
  • DONATE
  • SUBSCRIBE
  • WRITE FOR US
WELCOME TO MY WOVEN WORDS
  • Home
  • Favourite
    • Culture
    • History
    • Mythology
    • Folktale
    • Biography
    • Featured
      • Face of the Week
      • Brand of the Week
      • Interview
  • How To
    • Recipe
    • Relationship
    • Fashion
    • Health
    • Food
    • Motivational
    • Inspirational
    • Entrepreneurship
    • Business
    • Technology
  • Entertainment
    • Laugh Out Loud
    • Music
    • Article
    • Interview
    • Album Review
    • Omo Baba Ogunleye
    • Short Story
    • Poetry
  • Self Development
    • Motivational
    • Inspirational
    • Business
    • Entrepreneurship
    • Recipe
    • Interview
    • Biography
    • Relationship
    • Health
  • Literature
    • Competition Entry
    • Article
    • Poetry
    • Short Story
  • Columns
    • Poet Arin
    • Emmanuel Ikoromasoma
    • Omo Baba Ogunleye
    • Communicate Your Transformation
    • Superlight’s Guidelines
    • Janna Onyemaobi
    • De Jakins
No Result
View All Result
  • Home
  • Favourite
    • Culture
    • History
    • Mythology
    • Folktale
    • Biography
    • Featured
      • Face of the Week
      • Brand of the Week
      • Interview
  • How To
    • Recipe
    • Relationship
    • Fashion
    • Health
    • Food
    • Motivational
    • Inspirational
    • Entrepreneurship
    • Business
    • Technology
  • Entertainment
    • Laugh Out Loud
    • Music
    • Article
    • Interview
    • Album Review
    • Omo Baba Ogunleye
    • Short Story
    • Poetry
  • Self Development
    • Motivational
    • Inspirational
    • Business
    • Entrepreneurship
    • Recipe
    • Interview
    • Biography
    • Relationship
    • Health
  • Literature
    • Competition Entry
    • Article
    • Poetry
    • Short Story
  • Columns
    • Poet Arin
    • Emmanuel Ikoromasoma
    • Omo Baba Ogunleye
    • Communicate Your Transformation
    • Superlight’s Guidelines
    • Janna Onyemaobi
    • De Jakins
No Result
View All Result
WELCOME TO MY WOVEN WORDS
No Result
View All Result

Home » DEAR UNDERGRADUATE NEVER FEEL THE NEED TO ‘FIT IN’

DEAR UNDERGRADUATE NEVER FEEL THE NEED TO ‘FIT IN’

by Johnson Okunade
5 years ago
in Woven Campus
Reading Time: 2 mins read
A A
0
DEAR UNDERGRADUATE NEVER FEEL THE NEED TO ‘FIT IN’
SHARE THIS POST:




Morrebs ICT





TABLE OF CONTENTS show
If you ever feel the need to be accepted somewhere, this one’s for you.

If you ever feel the need to be accepted somewhere, this one’s for you.

One of you probably faced at some point, or are still facing, is the strong need to fit in. You’re not alone. Most people feel the same way. Most people feel inadequate and feel the need to belong with something, to belong to someone.
The problem with this is that it makes you vulnerable.
I’ll give you an instance.
A girl is in her first year in school. Everyone, all of her friends are in relationships, and she’s not in one. So for some reason, she feels the need not to be the one with the problem. She gives the boy a chance, possibly even lowering what might be her standards.
Over to our boy here. Our boy stays with a lot of other boys, who talk about escapades, like all the time. Everyone is bragging in their stories about the things they’ve done. Most of it will probably be a lie.
He wants to be in a relationship just like the boys, just so he can brag about making her fall. So he goes for her, she falls for him. In a few months, he feels like he’s done, he’s bored. But he has stories too now, and he moves on, leaving our girl shattered.
Most of the things that go wrong in school come from a need to feel accepted. It’s a human need. Most human beings are wired to be part of a community. The feeling of belonging to something.
Learn to control it. You need to start convincing yourself that you’re enough. You’re enough by yourself. You don’t need anyone to make you feel whole.
And let’s say you decide to belong somewhere. When you choose, don’t think about how it makes you feel at the moment. Think about how it will make you feel in a year, or two, or the rest of your life.
Think long term.
Remember, you’re fine. You’re alright. You’re not the one with the problem. In a race of dogs, a Cheetah has no need to run. It has nothing to prove.
Be that Cheetah. Run your own race, not anybody else’s.
#DeJakins
#CampusParrot
ILU AJE (TOWN OF WITCHES): A TOWN IN OYO STATE
Trending
ILU AJE (TOWN OF WITCHES): A TOWN IN OYO STATE




Morrebs ICT






SHARE THIS POST:
Previous Post

A STUDENT OF COVENANT UNIVERSITY DIED BECAUSE THE SCHOOL’S CLINIC IS A MESS

Next Post

HOW TO MAKE VASELINE

Related Posts

AN INTERVIEW WITH OSUN CAMPUS KING 2018; FELIX ADEOLA KESHINRO
Woven Campus

AN INTERVIEW WITH OSUN CAMPUS KING 2018; FELIX ADEOLA KESHINRO

4 years ago
340
AN INTERVIEW WITH MISS CAMPUS OSUN 2018; KAYODE SIMILOLUWA
Woven Campus

AN INTERVIEW WITH MISS CAMPUS OSUN 2018; KAYODE SIMILOLUWA

4 years ago
342
HOW COMEDIAN OGBENI ADAN GOT STABBED
Bowen Uni

HOW COMEDIAN OGBENI ADAN GOT STABBED

5 years ago
340
BOWEN BEAUTY PAGEANT GRAND FINALE AS COVERED BY SWIZZ TV
Bowen Uni

BOWEN BEAUTY PAGEANT GRAND FINALE AS COVERED BY SWIZZ TV

5 years ago
340
SOLOMON LANGE WAS LIVE IN BOWEN UNIVERSITY, IWO OSUN STATE
Bowen Uni

SOLOMON LANGE WAS LIVE IN BOWEN UNIVERSITY, IWO OSUN STATE

5 years ago
342
HIGHLIGHTS SO FAR OF BOWEN BEAUTY PAGEANT AS COVERED BY SWIZZ TV
Bowen Uni

HIGHLIGHTS SO FAR OF BOWEN BEAUTY PAGEANT AS COVERED BY SWIZZ TV

5 years ago
340
ALL ABOUT BOWEN UNIVERSITY 2016/2017 CONVOCATION
Bowen Uni

ALL ABOUT BOWEN UNIVERSITY 2016/2017 CONVOCATION

5 years ago
348
ABOUT BOWEN UNIVERSITY BEAUTY PAGEANT  2017
Bowen Uni

ABOUT BOWEN UNIVERSITY BEAUTY PAGEANT 2017

5 years ago
341
HOW TO CALCULATE CGPA IN NIGERIAN UNIVERSITIES
Woven "How"

HOW TO CALCULATE CGPA IN NIGERIAN UNIVERSITIES

5 years ago
340
Load More

COMMENT; JOIN THIS CONVERSATION! Cancel reply

  • Trending
  • Comments
  • Latest
Ayinla Omowura_Ebi kii pagun - mywovenwords

OLD MUSIC: DOWNLOAD EBI KII PAGUN D’ALE – AYINLA OMOWURA

July 26, 2020
Ayinla Omowura

BIOGRAPHY AND UNTOLD STORY OF AYINLA OMOWURA

May 23, 2022
Oriki Ibeji

ORIKI IBEJI (AN EULOGY OR PANEGYRIC OF TWINS)

June 29, 2022
OLD MUSIC: DOWNLOAD A N WI, ELE ONIGBO – AYINLA OMOWURA

OLD MUSIC: DOWNLOAD ENI ROBI SIMI – AYINLA OMOWURA

August 3, 2021
OLD MUSIC: DOWNLOAD PANSAGA RANTI OJO OLA – AYINLA OMOWURA

OLD MUSIC: DOWNLOAD PANSAGA RANTI OJO OLA – AYINLA OMOWURA

August 3, 2021
BIOGRAPHY OF ASABIOJE AFENAPA AND ABOUT ISESE LAGBA ALBUM

DOWNLOAD MP3 SONG OF OSUN SENGESE – ISESE L’AGBA BY ASABIOJE AFENAPA

November 6, 2021
DOWNLOAD MP3 SONG OF AJE OLOKUN

DOWNLOAD MP3 SONG OF AJE OLOKUN

April 17, 2022
UGANDAN BANYANKOLE TRIBE; WHERE BRIDE’S AUNT TEST-RUN GROOM’S POTENCY

UGANDAN BANYANKOLE TRIBE; WHERE BRIDE’S AUNT TEST-RUN GROOM’S POTENCY

September 4, 2021
SMS

EASILY RECEIVE YOUR CALL OR SMS ON ANOTHER NUMBER

September 1, 2021
OLD MUSIC: DOWNLOAD A N WI, ELE ONIGBO – AYINLA OMOWURA

OLD MUSIC: DOWNLOAD WERE WERE 1 – AYINLA OMOWURA

August 3, 2021
ON TIME

ON TIME

7
Oyo State Anthem 1

THE FULL OYO STATE ANTHEM LYRICS AND VIDEO

June 29, 2022
Oloye Adigun Olowe Yoruba

Adigun Olowe Yoruba – The Youngest Traditional Title Holder in The World

May 13, 2022
The History of Fiditi, Oyo State

The History of Fiditi, Oyo State

May 12, 2022
Baba Keji 5

Baba Keji: A 118 Years Old Man Who Has Served Three Alaafin of Oyo

June 29, 2022
Money Ritual (Ogun Owo)

OGUN OWO (MONEY RITUAL) IN YORUBA LAND

April 18, 2022
TIME IS TICKING – WRITTEN BY ADEDAYO ADEMOKOYA

TIME IS TICKING – WRITTEN BY ADEDAYO ADEMOKOYA

April 18, 2022
Eko Dara Pupo

Eko Dara Pupo (1987) – By Princess Bunmi Olajubu

June 29, 2022
Oba-Olateru Olagbegi-II

OBA OLATERU OLAGBEGI II: THE KING WHO HAD OVER 140 CHILDREN

November 18, 2021
THE SCARS THAT REFUSE TO HEAL

THE SCARS THAT REFUSE TO HEAL – ADEBESIN IBRAHEEM

October 18, 2021
VIRGO IN TACTA

VIRGO IN TACTA – ADEBESIN IBRAHEEM

October 18, 2021

Like Our Facebook Page

Like Our Facebook Page

Subscribe To YouTube

Advertise
advertise with us Woven

Subscribe to Woven TV

KINDLY SUBSCRIBE TO OUR MAILING LIST!

STAY WOVEN!!!

Get our latest updates and exclusive contents on a platter of gold!

We only write what is right

ABOUT US

My Woven Words is an online platform with the sole purpose of promoting and providing quality lifestyle content on a platter of gold. Founded in 2016, today, it is one of the most visited blogs in Nigeria as a great repository of awesome and propelling write-ups.

As of July 2021, My Woven Words Boast of more than 1,500 lifestyle blog posts/articles which makes it a world-class platform where everyone access loads of Historical/cultural content | Poems | Short stories | Contents on Health and Personal Hygiene | Old/Rare Music Download | Isese Music Download | African Folktales | Motivation | Food Recipes | Biographies | Interviews | Relationship Tips, and much more exquisite, best write-up ever. All the contents are verified, detailed, and well-written.

 

Email Us: [email protected]

Call Us: +2348026769022

COPYRIGHT

Copyright © 2021 by My Woven Words: No part of this published blog post and all of its contents may be reproduced, on another platform or webpage without a prior permission from My Woven Words except in the case of brief quotations cited to reference the source of the blogpost and all its content and certain other uses permitted by copyright law. For permission requests, contact the admin on [email protected], or Call him on +2348026769022

 

© 2016 - 2022 My Woven Words - We Only Write What Is Right | Developed by Morrebs ICT

No Result
View All Result
  • Home
  • Favourite
    • Culture
    • History
    • Mythology
    • Folktale
    • Biography
    • Featured
      • Face of the Week
      • Brand of the Week
      • Interview
  • How To
    • Recipe
    • Relationship
    • Fashion
    • Health
    • Food
    • Motivational
    • Inspirational
    • Entrepreneurship
    • Business
    • Technology
  • Entertainment
    • Laugh Out Loud
    • Music
    • Article
    • Interview
    • Album Review
    • Omo Baba Ogunleye
    • Short Story
    • Poetry
  • Self Development
    • Motivational
    • Inspirational
    • Business
    • Entrepreneurship
    • Recipe
    • Interview
    • Biography
    • Relationship
    • Health
  • Literature
    • Competition Entry
    • Article
    • Poetry
    • Short Story
  • Columns
    • Poet Arin
    • Emmanuel Ikoromasoma
    • Omo Baba Ogunleye
    • Communicate Your Transformation
    • Superlight’s Guidelines
    • Janna Onyemaobi
    • De Jakins

© 2016 - 2022 My Woven Words - We Only Write What Is Right | Developed by Morrebs ICT


Morrebs ICT

Morrebs ICT

Sorry, cannot copy or rightclick.